I blame myself for not listening to my psychic.
She was probably spot on, but shame on me, I didn't take notes and I didn't take heed. I do remember it being something like, "now is the time to DO", but WHO doesn't she say that to, you know? Anyway, I was in my Saturn Return and I swear to god, I wish my Saturn Return would last forever, but it doesn't. The threshold isn't very wide. And I'll be goddamned if I took advantage of Saturn and her orbit. I didn't.
I stayed stagnant, and as a result, here I am.
What no one tells you is, being a grown up is hard and it takes courage. I don't have that.